The first category of methods that Tantra offers for the open and courageous is related to the accumulation, harmonization and elevation of the qualities that are specific to each polarity.

An ecstatic intensity in a love relationship can only appear if there is a good polarization between the two lovers. This means that the woman has deeply awakened her femininity, and the man has developed a powerful masculine nature.

But no matter how much these qualities are natively or spontaneously awakened, they can be rapidly developed by adequate methods, depending only on the aspiration and the conscious efforts of the aspirant.